Jillian and Ed blog about ‘The Bachelorette’ experience

Ed is the Bachelor to "The Bachelorette"
People.com has provided some great blogs from Jillian this year: Wes, Reid and now Jillian and Ed doing one together. As of last night, we found out they are still going strong and Jillian is moving to Chicago on September 1st to try to make it work with Ed. Congratulations to them both. Blog excerpt below, you can read the full blog post here.
Well … that’s a wrap! I will keep this post short and sweet as I have an eager man waiting for me and wanting to get OUT IN PUBLIC together … FINALLY! I have been waiting for this day since May 24th — the day that I can openly tell you how madly in love I am, how happy I am and how excited I am for the future.
A wise man once said, “Love, it don’t come easy” — and that is so true. I can honestly say that I have found my best friend but it didn’t come without consequences. Aside from all the crying, surprises, drama, public criticism and most importantly, hurting two incredible men that I will never forget — please understand that it broke my heart as much as theirs — I never imagined in a million years that I would have to let two men go that I love so dearly, and have it hurt so so much in order to be with the man that I am wanting to spend the rest of my life with.
Reid and Kiptyn are both unbelievable men. Some will have opinions of why maybe I should have picked one or the other instead of Ed. Some will see why Ed was perfect for me from the beginning. I embrace ALL of your opinions. I can see why you would all think ALL three of these men would be great for me. For those who want to congratulate my happiness … THANK YOU!!! We are both EXTREMELY happy (still) and truly it gets better and better every day we are together.
The “After the Final Rose” was not easy. Not for me, and not for Reid or Kiptyn I’m sure. I felt like there was no right way to deal with the situation. I have always been very close with my exes but have never had to confront them in a setting like this before so I was definitely hurting. There are so many fabulous memories and so many sensitive ones. All I can say is that I am lucky — lucky to have been loved by these men and lucky to be with one right now that thinks the world of me.
Are the “Final Rose” events ever easy television moments? No way! At least you can always get direct sat deals on direct tv.
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September 3rd, 2009 at 12:19 am
I am happy for you Jillian, but am very afraid you may get heartbroken again. I know we should not believe all that we read, but Ed raises some red flags that I hope you do not ignore because you are so in love.
The fact that he made such a crude comments ( on US weekly) about what you were “doing to him” when you both heard about the rumors was inappropriate and very disrespectful to you and your family. And in the photos of you at a friends wedding in Canada, he has the nerve to wear jeans number one. And two he grabbed your a_ _ in front of everyone. Very disrespectful. He is not the Ed we came to know and love on the show. He is a player that may not be ready for marriage. Best of luck to you and remember; if it does not work out, it was not because of you. He is two different people.